I come from the sort of family in which, at the age of ten, I was told I must always say , never "the ," because meant "the," and two "the's" were redundant -- indeed something only would say.
In "Ex Libris: Confessions of a Common Reader," Anne Fadiman reflects on her upbringing in a family that valued precision in language. From a young age, she was taught the importance of using words correctly and avoiding redundancy. This emphasis on language shaped her understanding of communication and the subtle nuances of expression.
Fadiman's childhood lessons highlight a broader theme regarding the intricacies of language and meaning. By instilling these values early on, her family fostered a deep appreciation for the art of writing and speaking, reinforcing the idea that words carry significant power and weight.