In this excerpt from "The Mill on the Floss" by George Eliot, Philip points out the unfairness of extending personal grudges toward a woman who is innocent in family conflicts. He emphasizes that the girl in question possesses qualities of sense and goodness, and does not deserve to be affected by the family’s narrow-mindedness. Philip argues that she should not be judged based on her lineage or the resentments that others harbor.
The dialogue further explores societal attitudes that define women by their associations rather than their individual merits. It reflects a degrading perspective, suggesting that a woman's worth is tied to her family rather than her capabilities or character. This highlights the limits placed on women in society and the prevailing prejudices that dictate their acceptance based on familial ties.