Mindy Kaling explores the multifaceted nature of happiness in her book, "Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me?". She reflects on the complexities of relationships, particularly marriage, suggesting that true happiness can stem from various efforts and different dynamics. Kaling questions whether the hard work involved in maintaining these relationships overshadow the initial joy and companionship.

She raises a thought-provoking point about the essence of friendship in marriage, pondering what might have changed over time. Kaling seems to long for a simpler understanding of connection that fosters happiness without excessive strain, inviting readers to consider how friendships evolve into romantic partnerships.