Mindy Kaling expresses her emotional struggle regarding societal perceptions of traditional relationships. She feels sadness when she sees a decline in the number of people valuing the ideals she holds dear, such as marriage and starting a family. This reflects a broader cultural shift away from conventional relationship goals.

In her book, Kaling highlights the importance of love, commitment, and monogamy as key elements of her vision for happiness. Her poignant words convey a sense of longing for a world where those aspirations are celebrated rather than dismissed, underscoring her desire for meaningful connections in a changing landscape.