In "The Rosie Result" by Graeme Simsion, the author points out the irony in how neurotypical individuals often criticize autistic people for their perceived lack of empathy. This criticism frequently overlooks the fact that neurotypicals themselves may not be making an effort to understand or empathize with autistic individuals. This observation highlights a double standard in expectations regarding empathy.
Simsion emphasizes that rather than placing the onus solely on autistic individuals to develop social skills or emotional understanding, neurotypical people should also strive to enhance their empathy towards those on the autism spectrum. Acknowledging the need for mutual effort in fostering understanding can lead to more compassionate interactions and improve the overall relationships between neurotypical and autistic individuals.