I have mentioned that no one offers the name of a philosopher when I ask the question, "Who helped you most?" Most often they answer by describing a quiet, unassuming person. Someone who was there whenever needed, who listened more than talked, who didn't keep glancing down at a watch, who hugged and touched, and cried. In short, someone who was available, and came on the sufferer's terms and not their own.
I have observed that when I ask people who has helped them the most, they rarely mention a philosopher or a well-known thinker. Instead, they typically describe an ordinary, humble individual who offered support through quiet presence and genuine care. These people are characterized by their availability, attentive listening, and emotional connection, rather than by any grand gestures or intellectual advice.
"Most often they answer by describing a quiet, unassuming person....
