Anne Lamott expresses her surprise at the intensity of a baby's crying, revealing that she underestimated the challenges of parenthood. She compares the experience of caring for a baby to adopting a simpler pet, like a cat, indicating her initial expectations were far from the reality of the demands placed on parents.

This reflection underscores the often overwhelming nature of new parenthood, as Lamott highlights the emotional and practical adjustments required when welcoming a baby into one’s life. It emphasizes the importance of understanding and preparation for the unpredictable journey of raising children, as addressed in "Secrets of the Baby Whisperer" by Tracy Hogg.