In "Travels with Charley: In Search of America," John Steinbeck reflects on the paradox of human behavior, suggesting that people often provide more attention and assistance to strangers than to their loved ones. He uses a powerful metaphor to illustrate this point, comparing a man who neglects his starving mother to those who eagerly offer help to a lost traveler. This highlights how personal connections can be overshadowed by a sense of duty to help others, even outside one's immediate circle of concern.

Steinbeck argues that being perceived as lost can facilitate genuine connections and conversations. He emphasizes that in moments of uncertainty, people are drawn to extend their help, showcasing a fundamental aspect of human nature. Rather than focusing on our closest bonds, such experiences reveal how we often prioritize interactions with those who are not part of our daily lives, suggesting a complex relationship between love, duty, and the desire for connection.