I realize I'm trying to work out the boundaries. How to love her without interfering. How to step back and let her have her private world and yet still be an intimate part of it. When she talks about her feelings, I have to consciously tell myself she wants me to receive them, not fix them.
The author discusses the complexities of a mother-daughter relationship, emphasizing the importance of finding a balance between involvement and independence. She reflects on the challenge of loving her daughter while allowing her to maintain her own space. This delicate dance requires an understanding that intimacy can exist alongside personal boundaries.
When engaging in conversations about her daughter's feelings, the author learns to listen without the impulse to offer solutions. This realization highlights the necessity of being present and supportive, showing affection through acceptance rather than interference. It is a journey of respecting her daughter's individuality while nurturing their connection.
