In her book "Bad Feminist," Roxane Gay expresses her admiration for men, acknowledging their intriguing qualities. However, she highlights a pervasive disappointment regarding their treatment of women, suggesting that if men improved their behavior, there would be less need for criticism and intervention from women.
Gay's candid reflection underscores a complex relationship where appreciation coexists with frustration. She wishes for a world where mutual respect is the norm, allowing her to engage positively with men without the burden of calling out injustices regularly.