In his book "Assholes Finish First," Tucker Max discusses how individuals can often face judgment for their personal choices, especially when those choices involve safe and consensual activities that bring them joy. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing that those who shame or criticize you for living authentically are likely not good people. Their judgment stems from their own insecurities and narrow-mindedness.

Max encourages readers to embrace what makes them happy, regardless of outside opinions. By doing so, individuals can lead more fulfilling lives and disregard the negativity from those who do not understand or accept their choices. Ultimately, the message is about self-acceptance and surrounding oneself with supportive individuals rather than those who seek to shame or belittle personal happiness.