In "Friends, Lovers, Chocolate," Isabel reflects on the profound moral implications of holding individuals accountable for the actions of their governments. She grapples with the overwhelming weight of responsibility that would come if everyone were charged with the misdeeds committed by those in power. This thought leads her to consider the complexities of ethics in a world where political decisions can lead to great harm.

Isabel's internal struggle highlights the dilemma of personal versus collective responsibility. It suggests that while individuals may not agree with or support the actions of their governments, the notion of being held culpable for those actions feels untenable. This reflects a deeper questioning of our roles as citizens and the burden of accountability in a complex political landscape.