In marriage the greatest hatred that is possible between human beings can be generated, perhaps because of the constant proximity, perhaps because once there was love. The intimacy is still there, even though the love element has disappeared. So a will to power, a struggle for domination, comes into being.
In his book "Now Wait for Last Year," Philip K. Dick explores the complexities of marriage, highlighting how intense feelings can shift from love to hatred. He suggests that the close quarters of living together can amplify negative emotions, as the intimacy that once fostered love may become a breeding ground for conflict.
The author posits that the disappearance of love does not erase the bond itself; rather, it ignites a struggle for power and control within the relationship. This dynamic illustrates the paradox of intimacy, where the very closeness that once nurtured affection can evolve into animosity.
