The question of whether it is better to be interested or interesting invites meaningful reflection. According to Susan C. Young's book, "The Art of Connection," the premise is that showing genuine interest in others is more impactful than simply trying to be engaging or entertaining yourself.
Young emphasizes that when we prioritize understanding and connecting with people, they are more likely to reciprocate that interest. This mutual engagement not only enriches relationships but also fosters a deeper sense of rapport and kinship, leading to positive interactions.