To Disclose or Not DiscloseI just saw a poster: "Dirty laundry goes here {laundry basket} not here {Facebook logo}." Online and in person, withholding personal information is a discreet way of regulating what people learn, think, and know about you. There are times when keeping it real and keeping it honest will reveal your authenticity and trustworthiness, but there are other times, however, when things are better left unsaid or locked away. Hence the term TMI, meaning "Too Much Information!" Discretion is part of "keeping it real" in professional {and self} respect.
The message on the poster highlights the importance of discretion regarding personal information, emphasizing the need to share appropriately depending on the context. Online and offline, the choice to reveal or withhold details can significantly affect others' perceptions of us. While transparency can build trust, it is also essential to recognize when to hold back to maintain professionalism and respect, particularly in social media scenarios.
The concept of TMI, or "Too Much Information," serves as a reminder that not everything needs to be shared, as some information might be best kept private. Balancing authenticity with discretion can enhance our connections while protecting our personal boundaries and reputation, as discussed in Susan C. Young's book on enriching relationships and rapport.