It is generally accepted that people enjoy surprises: hence the traditions associated with Christmas, birthdays, and anniversaries. In my experience, most of the pleasure accrues to the giver. The victim is frequently under pressure to feign, at short notice, a positive response to an unwanted object or unscheduled event.
The joy of surprises is often tied to special occasions like Christmas, birthdays, and anniversaries. While it is widely believed that these surprises bring happiness, the experience can differ for both the giver and the recipient. The giver typically derives much of their enjoyment from the act of surprising someone else.
However, the recipient frequently finds themselves in a position where they must quickly mask their true feelings. They may receive a gift or experience that they did not want, leading to pressure to respond positively, even if they are disappointed or caught off guard. This dynamic reveals that the thrill of surprises can sometimes come at the cost of genuine enjoyment for the individual on the receiving end.
