In her work, Roxane Gay emphasizes the complexity and individuality of girlhood. She argues that it is an expansive experience that cannot be fully encapsulated by any single representation. Each girl's journey is unique, influenced by her background, culture, and personal experiences, making it impossible to create an all-encompassing narrative about girlhood.

Gay’s insight highlights the importance of recognizing the diverse stories and perspectives that comprise girlhood. Rather than seeking a singular representation, we should embrace the multitude of voices and experiences that reflect the richness of what it means to grow up as a girl, acknowledging that every experience is valid and significant.