It is the beginning of wisdom when you recognize that the best you can do is choose rules you want to live by, and it's persistent and aggravated imbecility to pretend you can live without any.
In Wallace Stegner's "All the Little Live Things," a key insight is the importance of acknowledging the guidelines that shape our lives. Understanding that our choices are fundamentally governed by certain rules is the start of true wisdom. Instead of denying the existence of these frameworks, we should embrace them and make conscious decisions about which principles we want to follow. This recognition leads to a more informed and reflective way of living.
Stegner suggests that failing to recognize the necessity of personal guidelines is a profound error. It highlights a refusal to engage thoughtfully with life’s complexities. By consciously choosing the rules to adhere to, we empower ourselves to navigate our existence with purpose and clarity. Ultimately, this approach fosters a deeper understanding of our values and leads to more meaningful choices.