It requires a hard look at what is, rather than what you hope will be. As you let go of managing and controlling, you must also let go of the idea that "when he changes I'll be happy." He may never change. You must stop trying to make him. And you must learn to be happy anyway.
The quote underscores the importance of facing reality instead of clinging to idealized expectations of change in a partner. It emphasizes that relying on someone else's transformation for personal happiness is futile. Accepting a partner as they are, rather than yearning for a different version of them, is crucial for emotional well-being.
Norwood encourages individuals, especially women, to relinquish the urge to control or manage their relationships, which can lead to...
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