Nien Cheng emphasizes a forward-looking perspective on life, suggesting that dwelling on the past can be unproductive. She reflects on how material possessions hold little significance, using her collection of porcelain pieces as an illustration. These objects have a history, having been owned by various people and enduring significant hardships before reaching her. This view highlights the transient nature of both life and belongings.

Cheng advocates for appreciating the moment rather than clinging to possessions. Her experience with the porcelain, now passed on to others, reinforces her belief that while we may find joy in objects, they are ultimately temporary. Life, in her view, is a cycle of loss and enjoyment, and understanding this impermanence can lead to a more fulfilled existence focused on what truly matters.