In "Slam" by Nick Hornby, the author explores the impact of attitudes toward gender among adolescents. He suggests that showing respect for girls can enhance a young man's appeal. For example, when friends make derogatory remarks about girls, standing up and defending them can positively influence how girls perceive that young man.

The quote highlights the importance of context in these interactions. It's not just about making a statement; there's a need for an audience of girls who can witness this respectful behavior. If they aren't present, the effort is rendered ineffective. Hornby effectively captures the nuances of teenage social dynamics and the significance of respectful discourse in forming relationships.