In "The Rosie Project" by Graeme Simsion, the narrator reflects on a moment of unexpected intimacy while dancing. Initially, he doesn't perceive this close contact as uncomfortable, which surprises him. Instead, he finds that his focus on perfecting the dance steps allows him to engage with another person in a way that feels natural and enjoyable.

This realization highlights the power of concentration and passion in facilitating human connection. By immersing himself in the activity, he discovers an ability to interact with someone else that transcends his usual discomfort, illustrating how shared interests can foster relationships and ease social anxieties.