In "A Tale for the Time Being," Ruth Ozeki explores the concept of "le mal de vivre," which translates to the pain of existence. This poignant phrase encapsulates the struggles and hardships inherent in life, highlighting a universal experience of suffering that many endure. The idea that "we must live with" these pains acknowledges the inevitability of life's difficulties. Ozeki suggests that despite these challenges, one must continue to persevere and embrace the life they have, reflecting a sense of resilience and acceptance in the face of adversity. It emphasizes the importance of enduring life's struggles, reminding readers to keep moving forward.