In "Finding Audrey" by Sophie Kinsella, the narrative emphasizes the importance of personal choice and emotional independence. The idea presented is that whether a person, like Linus, decides to participate in a social interaction or not, it ultimately reflects their own preferences and circumstances. This underscores the notion that others' decisions are not a reflection of our worth or responsibility.
The message encourages readers to recognize that while we may care about others, their feelings and choices are theirs alone. Such recognition can alleviate unnecessary stress and pressure we may place on ourselves regarding how others perceive us. Understanding that we are not accountable for someone else's emotions can promote healthier relationships and foster self-acceptance.