In John Barth's "Lost in the Funhouse," he explores the concept of love as an essential force in our lives. He suggests that love is what motivates us and helps us endure life’s challenges, even though we may not fully understand its true nature. The notion of being "driven" implies that there are underlying forces at play, and love serves as a label for our confusion regarding what really propels us forward.

Barth articulates the irony that while we rely on love to guide and sustain us, we remain largely ignorant of its true essence. This perspective highlights the paradox of human experience, where our understanding is limited, and yet, it is love that keeps us going amidst the struggles and uncertainties. In essence, love is a reflection of our lack of awareness about the deeper motivations behind our actions.