In the narrative, Tita expresses deep frustration regarding societal expectations and the influence of Carreño's manual on her life. She feels trapped by the rigid standards of decency that dictate her actions and emotions, leading to a slow deterioration of her spirit and physical wellbeing. The limitations imposed by tradition have rendered her powerless, igniting her anger and resentment.

Tita's lamentation also highlights her complex feelings toward Pedro, who embodies the ideal qualities of manliness and virtue, yet remains distant due to familial obligations and societal norms. Despite his decency and the love he inspires, Tita's longing for authentic connection contrasts sharply with the constraints that confine her. This conflict underscores the tragic interplay between love, duty, and personal freedom in her life.