In his book "The Obstacle Is the Way," Ryan Holiday discusses how modern society's abundance can lead to various problems. He argues that the rapid pace of technological change, the prevalence of unhealthy food, and rigid societal traditions can create a sense of entitlement and fear among people. This softening of character can make individuals less resilient and more prone to avoiding conflict.

Holiday emphasizes that great times often lead to complacency, causing people to feel unprepared for challenges. Instead of fostering strength and adaptability, these conditions can make individuals vulnerable. By recognizing and addressing these issues, one can learn to turn adversity into an advantage, thereby developing greater resilience in the face of difficulties.