In the pursuit of success, we often focus on aspects beyond our control, such as external decisions made by others. These include choices like funding allocation or someone else taking credit for an idea. It is essential to recognize that many obstacles are outside our influence; thus, obsessing over them can be counterproductive. Instead, we should redirect our energy toward what we can change, such as enhancing our pitches or refining our strategies, rather than dwelling on unfairness.

The key is to realize that while we cannot change every situation, we possess the power to adapt and improve in response. When faced with setbacks, the healthier approach is to pivot, innovate, or advocate for what we believe in. Accepting the things we can't change frees us to focus on those we can influence, ultimately turning obstacles into opportunities for growth and resilience.