Mindy Kaling's book "Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me?" humorously contrasts the behaviors of men with more stereotypical traits. She points out that men tend to have clear goals and take proactive steps toward achieving them, suggesting a sense of responsibility evident in their everyday choices. For example, they tend to be organized with time management and personal care, illustrated by their use of alarm clocks and regular dental visits.

Moreover, Kaling highlights certain practical habits that reflect a straightforward approach to life. From making reservations to being generous when tipping, men are depicted as individuals who prefer to act decisively and without hesitation. Their willingness to kiss without lengthy pretexts further exemplifies a straightforwardness in communication and relationships, contrasting with more uncertain behaviors often associated with others.