Messes are made by people who want but don't know what they want, let alone how to get it.
In her book "Expensive People," Joyce Carol Oates reflects on the nature of confusion and desire in human behavior. She suggests that individuals often find themselves in chaotic situations because they are uncertain about their true desires. This lack of clarity can lead to messy circumstances, both in personal lives and in relationships with others.
Oates emphasizes that understanding what one truly wants is crucial for navigating life successfully. Without this...