The narrator feels a profound difference in the love she receives from her mother compared to her brother, Joseph. While she acknowledges the presence of her mother’s love in her life, she perceives it as a gentler, less intense affection. This creates a contrast with the way her mother interacts with Joseph, suggesting that his place in their mother's heart is singular and profound, leading the narrator to feel somewhat overshadowed.

This dynamic leaves the narrator grappling with her identity and the notion of being "the darling daughter" while feeling that her brother occupies a more cherished role. The metaphor of love as different bodies of water illustrates the complexity of their relationships and the unique emotional landscape within their family. Aimee Bender's exploration of familial love reveals intricate layers of affection and the longing for equal acknowledgment and affection.