My version of an Irish exit has an air of deception to it, because it includes my asking loudly, "Where's the bathroom?" and making theatrical looking-around gestures like a lost foreign tourist. But then, instead of finding the bathroom, I sneakily grab my coat and leave.
Mindy Kaling shares a humorous take on an "Irish exit" in her book "Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me?". Instead of slipping away unnoticed, she uses a playful and theatrical ruse by loudly inquiring about the bathroom while pretending to search for it. This act of feigned confusion adds a layer of deception to her departure.
As she prepares to leave, the comedic twist lies in her true intention, which is not to find the bathroom but to quietly grab her coat and exit the gathering. This self-deprecating and relatable approach highlights Kaling's knack for blending humor with social commentary, making her experiences entertaining and engaging.