In the conversation between Paul and Tom, Paul emphasizes the notion that while love itself is a beautiful and enriching experience, it should not lead to suffering. He suggests that the pain associated with love often arises from situations like separations, betrayals, or breakups, rather than love itself.
Paul reassures Tom that love is a vital part of life, bringing joy and meaning. He encourages Tom to appreciate the essence of love, despite its challenges, and to understand that it is fundamentally a positive force in our lives.