In "High Fidelity," Nick Hornby remarks on the incongruity of society's acceptance of children listening to countless sad songs that explore themes of heartbreak and despair. He points out that while no one seems to be concerned about this exposure to emotional pain through music, it may have a negative impact on their perceptions of love and relationships.

Hornby observes a correlation between people's affection for pop music and their romantic unhappiness, suggesting that those who immerse themselves in such songs often reflect a deeper emotional struggle. Although he does not assert that the music is the direct cause of their dissatisfaction, he notes that these individuals have been influenced by these themes long before they experienced real-life heartbreak.