. . . none of us are as sophisticated in these matters as you think. You know I always feel, with every new person, as if I am starting anew. These things are instinctive. What you need to learn is to lay aside your inhibitions, to go back to your childhood when you played marbles or whatever with boys and never thought anything of it.
In "Reading Lolita in Tehran," Azar Nafisi reflects on the complexities of human relationships and the challenges of navigating social expectations. She acknowledges that despite our perceptions of sophistication, we often lack a deeper understanding of these dynamics. Each new encounter feels like a fresh beginning, highlighting the instinctive nature of our interactions.
Nafisi emphasizes the importance of shedding inhibitions and reconnecting with our childhood innocence. She encourages embracing carefree moments, akin to playing games like marbles without concern or judgment. This perspective invites a return to a simpler, more genuine way of engaging with others, allowing for more authentic connections.