Norman Mailer said there were four stages in a marriage: first the affair then the marriage, then children and then finally the fourth stage, without which you cannot know a woman, the divorce.
In "Bleed for Me" by Michael Robotham, the author explores the complexities of relationships, particularly marriage, through a thoughtful lens. The narrative suggests that a marriage undergoes significant transformations over time, often influenced by various pivotal life events. Each stage reflects a different dynamic between partners, leading to both intimate connections and challenges that redefine their relationship.
Norman Mailer’s quote about the four stages of marriage encapsulates this theme. He posits that a connection begins with an affair, evolves into marriage, evolves further with children, and culminates in divorce. This progression highlights the idea that true understanding of a partner often comes through conflict and separation, ultimately shaping one's perspective and experience of love and commitment.
