One could not spend one's life in the imaginings of another life.
Aimee Bender
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Aimee Bender's story collection, "The Color Master," explores the complexities of identity and imagination. The themes revolve around the struggle of living authentically versus getting lost in fantasies shaped by others. Each tale delves into the nuances of personal experience and the desire to forge one's path, highlighting how relying solely on others' visions can hinder true self-discovery.

The quote, "One could not spend one's life in the imaginings of another life," encapsulates the essence of this exploration. It serves as a reminder that while it's tempting to get caught up in the dreams or expectations of others, true fulfillment lies in embracing our own reality and aspirations. Bender's work encourages readers to reflect on their lives and the importance of carving out their unique existence.

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But the fact was, Sherrie Marla trusted him already. When he took the ice off, and showed to her his new symmetry, she didn't flinch. His face was him to her now. It was not a map or an indicator of some abstract idea. Turned out it was only the first impression he needed to alter.
Aimee Bender The Color Master: Stories
But the fact was, Sherrie Marla trusted him already. When he took the ice off, and showed to her his new symmetry, she didn't flinch. His face was him to her now. It was not a map or an indicator of some abstract idea. Turned out it was only the first impression he needed to alter.
It's tempting to think of red for sun," she said, "but it has to be just a dash, not much. More of a dark orange and a hint of brown. And then white on yellow on white. Not bright white,' she said. 'The kind of white that makes you squint, but in a softer way...''Go look at fire for a while. Go spend some time with fire.'Looking at fire was interesting, I have to admit. I sat with a candle for a couple hours. It has these stages of color: the white, the yellow, the red, the tiny spot of blue I'd heard mentioned but never noticed.
Aimee Bender The Color Master: Stories
It's tempting to think of red for sun," she said, "but it has to be just a dash, not much. More of a dark orange and a hint of brown. And then white on yellow on white. Not bright white,' she said. 'The kind of white that makes you squint, but in a softer way...''Go look at fire for a while. Go spend some time with fire.'Looking at fire was interesting, I have to admit. I sat with a candle for a couple hours. It has these stages of color: the white, the yellow, the red, the tiny spot of blue I'd heard mentioned but never noticed.
But rock, of course, is many colors. The distinction is subtle, but it is not just one plain grey, that I can promise...I spent five hours one afternoon just staring at a rock trying to see into its color scheme.
Aimee Bender The Color Master: Stories
But rock, of course, is many colors. The distinction is subtle, but it is not just one plain grey, that I can promise...I spent five hours one afternoon just staring at a rock trying to see into its color scheme.
Dad lost his job. Then he got a new job. Then he got his old job back and went back to it. They were all in the same building.
Aimee Bender The Color Master: Stories
Dad lost his job. Then he got a new job. Then he got his old job back and went back to it. They were all in the same building.
An old man with overalls walked by; I don't think old people should wear overalls; it makes them look like shrivelly toddlers.
Aimee Bender The Color Master: Stories
An old man with overalls walked by; I don't think old people should wear overalls; it makes them look like shrivelly toddlers.
She looked over my shoulder once while I was texting, which was already annoying, and when I wrote lol she made a very clear point to me about how I was silent and not laughing out loud, not at all. I said it was just an expression, and that I was laughing out loud inside my own mind.
Aimee Bender The Color Master: Stories
She looked over my shoulder once while I was texting, which was already annoying, and when I wrote lol she made a very clear point to me about how I was silent and not laughing out loud, not at all. I said it was just an expression, and that I was laughing out loud inside my own mind.
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