Only stupid men trying to seem smart need to be with dumb women. Only weak men trying to look strong are attracted to compliant women.
The quote from Orson Scott Card's "First Meetings in Ender's Universe" suggests that insecure men seek out relationships with women who are less intelligent or less assertive. This dynamic stems from a desire to bolster their own self-image, indicating a lack of confidence and strength in these men. They gravitate toward partners who allow them to feel superior or more powerful.
This observation highlights a broader commentary on relationships and personal growth. Genuine connections often require mutual respect and equality, where both partners are secure and confident in themselves. Seeking validation through less capable partners can lead to unhealthy relationship patterns and inhibit personal development.
