Other people look at me and think: But all I see when I look at you is that girl who had memorized all the words to Queen's 'Bohemian Rhapsody' by the time she was three, the girl who crawls into bed with me whenever there's a thunderstorm - not because you're afraid but because am, the girl whose laugh has always vibrated inside my own body like a tuning fork. I would never have wished for an able-bodied child, because that child would have been someone who wasn't you.
The speaker reflects on their deep emotional connection with a girl who has special needs, appreciating her individuality and the unique bond they share. Rather than focusing on societal perceptions, they cherish her memories, such as her early mastery of Queen's 'Bohemian Rhapsody' and her comforting presence during storms. This perspective emphasizes the value of their relationship over conventional expectations.
The speaker makes it clear that they wouldn't want their child to be different, as it would mean losing the essence of who she is. This highlights a profound acceptance and love that transcends typical parental wishes, showing that the girl's challenges only enhance the beautiful connection they have.