People at the top are self-conscious about what they say {and rightfully so} because they have position and privilege to protect - and self-consciousness is the enemy of interestingness.
In his book "What the Dog Saw and Other Adventures," Malcolm Gladwell highlights the challenges faced by those in positions of power. He suggests that individuals at the top often feel the weight of their status, which makes them cautious about their words. This self-consciousness arises from a desire to maintain their privilege and reputation.
Gladwell argues that this self-awareness can hinder their ability to engage in compelling conversations or express themselves freely. Essentially, while caution is understandable given their roles, it can lead to a lack of authenticity and interesting dialogue, limiting their connection with others.