Perfectionism means that you try desperately not to leave so much mess to clean up. But clutter and mess show us that life is being lived. - ANNE LAMOTT, Bird by Bird
Anne Lamott suggests that perfectionism often drives individuals to avoid any mess or disorder, as they strive for an ideal state of cleanliness and control. However, she emphasizes that clutter and chaos are natural outcomes of a life fully lived, indicating activity and engagement with the world around us.
Michele Cushatt, in her book "Undone: A Story of Making Peace With an Unexpected Life," echoes this sentiment. She highlights that embracing our imperfections and the messiness of life is essential for personal growth and authenticity. Rather than fearing disorder, we should recognize it as a sign of vibrant living.
