In her book "Bad Feminist: Essays," Roxane Gay discusses the concept of privilege, describing it as a unique benefit or advantage granted to certain individuals or groups. She identifies various forms of privilege such as racial, gender, economic, and educational, highlighting how these privileges provide certain groups with unearned advantages in society.

Gay emphasizes the importance of recognizing and acknowledging the kinds of privilege one holds. This self-awareness is crucial in understanding societal dynamics and fostering empathy toward others who may not share the same advantages. By surrendering to the realities of privilege, individuals can engage in more meaningful conversations about equality and social justice.