Rosin suggests that feminists are holding on to a grudge, that feminists are willfully holding on to this notion of patriarchal dominance as if we would be unable to function if we weren't suffering. I'm only one feminist, but I'm confident we'd be just fine if all were right with the world.
In her essay "Bad Feminist," Roxane Gay discusses an interesting perspective on feminism, highlighting a critique by Rosin. Rosin argues that some feminists cling to the concept of patriarchal oppression, implying that they need the struggle to justify their existence. This perspective suggests that they thrive on the notion of victimhood rather than embracing empowerment and equality in a world free from such dominance.
However, Gay, representing her own viewpoint as a feminist, challenges this notion. She believes that women could thrive and succeed in a world without patriarchy, emphasizing that the focus should be on achieving equality and justice rather than perpetuating a sense of grievance about gender roles. Gay's insights invite a discussion about the evolution of feminist thought and the possibilities of a more just society.
