So to make the task of lowering expectations easier: Reduce the number of options you consider. Be a satisficer rather than a maximizer. Allow for serendipity.
In "The Paradox of Choice," author Barry Schwartz argues that having too many choices can lead to dissatisfaction and anxiety. To alleviate the pressure of making decisions, he suggests simplifying one's options and adopting a mindset of satisficing, which means accepting good enough rather than striving for the absolute best. This approach can make it easier to manage expectations and lead to greater contentment.
Schwartz emphasizes that embracing serendipity can also enhance the decision-making process. By reducing the number of possibilities and being open to unexpected outcomes, individuals can experience more joy and satisfaction in their choices. This shift in perspective can ultimately lead to a more fulfilling life, free from the paralysis often caused by overwhelming options.
