In David Sedaris's book "Calypso," he reflects on the challenges and misunderstandings faced by novice travelers. He highlights a particular saying among less experienced passengers who attempt to board flights early, emphasizing that while everyone may be heading to the same destination, the dynamics of boarding can create tension. The differences in boarding groups represent a hierarchy that novice travelers often overlook.

Through this anecdote, Sedaris illustrates the absurdity of air travel, particularly the confusion that arises from the boarding process. Essentially, while everyone is bound for the same location, the reality is that not everyone will have equal access to space for their belongings, leading to frustration and conflict among passengers. This highlights a broader theme of social situations where appearances can be deceiving.