Such is frequently the fate, and such the stern development, of the feminine character and person, when the woman has encountered, and lived through, an experience of peculiar severity. If she be all tenderness, she will die. If she survive, the tenderness will either be crushed out of her, or--and the outward semblance is the same--crushed so deeply into her heart that it can never show itself more.
In "The Scarlet Letter," Nathaniel Hawthorne explores the profound impact of severe experiences on women's lives. The narrative suggests that when a woman faces intense hardships, her inherent tenderness may be a liability. If she is compassionate and loving, such traits may lead to her demise under harsh circumstances. This reflects the struggle of a feminine character against overwhelming challenges.
Moreover, for those women who endure these trials, their emotional resilience might come at a cost. While they may survive, their capacity for tenderness may be diminished or internalized to the point of invisibility. Thus, the external appearance of strength may mask a deep-seated pain, illustrating the complexities of the feminine experience shaped by adversity.