In the scene from "Middlesex," Tessie and another character, Helga, observe a painful process, likely a hair removal procedure, being performed nearby. The reactions of those undergoing the treatment range from surprise to discomfort, highlighting the physical pain associated with beauty standards. Helga minimizes the situation, claiming she does it perfectly, while others vocalize their distress.

Through Helga’s comment on the suffering women endure for men, the text critiques societal expectations related to beauty and femininity. Helga’s perspective introduces a feminist angle, suggesting that the pain endured for the sake of male approval is unjustifiable. This conversation reveals deeper themes of self-worth and the pressures women face regarding their appearance.