John O'Donohue's "Eternal Echoes" explores the essence of being human, emphasizing our intrinsic need for intimacy and connection with one another. This longing is a fundamental part of our existence, as it satisfies our deep-seated desire to belong. Yet, despite our attempts to connect, it’s evident that there is always an element of mystery in our relationships, making even those closest to us feel somewhat distant or foreign.
The author draws a parallel between the complexity of adult relationships and the innocence of childhood, where we often "make strange" with each other. This highlights the paradox of intimacy: while we seek closeness, we also encounter barriers that prevent complete understanding and closeness. O'Donohue’s reflections invite readers to embrace this duality, suggesting that the beauty of human relationships lies in both our connections and the mysteries that keep us intriguing to one another.