The Pain of Becoming For the flower, it is fully open at each step of its blossoming. We do ourselves a great disservice by judging where we are in comparison to some final destination. This is one of the pains of aspiring to become something: the stage of development we are in is always seen against the imagined landscape of what we are striving for. So where we are-though closer all the time-is never quite enough.
The journey of personal development often involves comparing our current state to an idealized endpoint, which can lead to feelings of inadequacy. Just like a flower that blooms fully at every stage, we should recognize and appreciate our progress rather than fixate on where we feel we should be. This mindset can hinder our ability to embrace our present selves.
The pain of aspiring to become something greater can overwhelm us, as we frequently measure our worth against an imagined future. In "The Book of Awakening," Mark Nepo suggests that we should focus on the beauty of our development without comparing it to an unattainable standard. This shift in perspective allows us to appreciate the journey itself and acknowledge the progress we make along the way.
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