The author emphasizes the importance of having a clear goal in life, which cultivates a mindset focused on giving rather than solely on receiving. Many individuals tend to concentrate only on their personal desires, which can lead to a victim mentality, where they feel helpless or self-centered. This perspective can hinder personal growth and fulfillment.

By adopting the role of someone who has a meaningful purpose and objective, a person can regain their self-esteem and confidence. This shift in focus not only enriches one's own life but also fosters a positive outlook that contributes to others, enhancing overall well-being and satisfaction in life.